This effort on behalf of Home of Hope began in mid-2006 and wonderful things are happening as hearts open up to the wonderful girls in this orphanage in India.
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Trip Report - The Salesian Sisters at the twin cities of Hyderabad & Secunderabad
Introduction: This report tells of the first 48 hours I spent with Salesian Sisters of Don Bosco in the twin cities of Hyderabad & Secunderabad, India, in the first week of February 2009. I spent my time with the Sisters looking to understand more about the incredible work they are doing with the poorest of the poor children in the area while also trying to get an idea of their most dire needs.
On Arriving I arrived at Hyderabad airport at 8:30am in the morning. The sisters, Sister Rani and Sister Jancy were waiting for me; they recognized me from the description Paul had given to them... "Stuart Uncle!" they shouted.
As we left the airport parking lot, I couldn't help but notice that the parking attendant demand250 rupees from the sisters; this seemed expensive. As we were whisked out of the airport, I saw the tariff board and noticed this amount was for 7 hours or more. A little odd I thought to myself, but I was so tired, after more than 30 hours delay and in my 4th day of travel, I fell asleep. It had been a very long passage to India.
The twin cities of Hyderabad & Secunderabad have moved the airport away from the metropolitan area, like they have done at Bangalore, so it takes about 1 hour to get in.
I arrived to meet a cheery group of sisters, and one familiar face. Sister Mercy, the administrator of the province (the Economer as they call her here). This was a lucky coincidence; she was passing through to greet an Italian volunteer.
The Auxilium The Auxilium at Secunderabad follows what is the familiar Salesian formula. Based around the courtyard, which is smaller than say Pallaruthy, or the Provincial motherhouse, it is maybe only 5 meters square. When I arrived, I was greeted by the Mother Superior, Sister Alice, who kept me moving straight to the kitchen area, where we sat down. I filled myself up on Ickly and tea and she introduced me to all the sisters - who were surprised at my willingness to partake in all the local fayre!
Not a single vehicle While filling myself up on Ickly and curry for breakfast, I realized that the sisters had been standing outside the airport for 7 hours (non-flying passengers are not allowed into the building for security reasons). Somewhat embarrassed, I asked why had they left so early, as we had been sending email updates on the delay of my flight. They told me they have no vehicle and it was hard to get a taxi for this time and even harder to change plans once they have been made, so Sister Alice, the Superior, said they should leave at 2:30am as was originally planned. As I am to find out, these eight sisters are running 2 orphanages and a school for 1,200 children without a single vehicle!
After breakfast, I was shown to my room, simple, but clean with a single bed, a desk, a mosquito net and an adjoining bathroom. Exhausted I fell asleep and did not awake until 5pm, 6 hours later.
The Orphanage at the Auxilium They have started a little orphanage; I have just met each of the girls. The language here is Telagu. The girls names are (from right to left) Revathi, Swathi, Isharani (pronounced e-sha-rani), Chandini, Menaka, Santhoshini, means happiness.
Menaka, Santhoshini and Isharani are from the neighboring state of Orissa, the others are from the local state of Andhra. In Orissa there are big problems resulting in Christians being persecuted, therefore the girls have come here for refuge. A priest from the local Don Bosco for Street Boys orphanage brought them here (along with a boy who went to the boys home). Revathi and Swathi are from the street, they have no parents and Chandini's parents are deaf and dumb.
When the girls arrive here they speak no English and it is amazing to meet them now, they speak fantastic English.
The sisters are planning to have more children here. They could have more children, but land is a huge problem. This is a theme that I am to hear again and again on my visit. In the current Auxilium building they can house maybe 10 more children.
When the sisters receive the children, they don't send them to school for the first year. One of the Sisters, Sister Celine (the local economer and previously from Hassan) teaches them "from ABC to everything". Menaka, one of the older girls, "had no study at all when she arrived". She studied for one full year, and the Sisters were able put her directly into 3rd class of the local English speaking school! This is very impressive!
I asked the Sisters about the girls diet... the Sisters didn't seem too concerned, as simple survival seems the point. At this point, Sister Mercy talked about the need for a balanced diet. I mentioned vitamins, but this didn't seem to be a concern for the sisters. The children do have milk, it costs 28 rupees a liter, which is quite expensive.
The girls don't have a proper toilet or taps to wash their face, this is a problem that they would like to fix. (NOTE: I do have pictures of the current facilities, they are not good). Also, they would prefer that the girls have their own desks, they are currently working on the floor.
The routine The school gets over at 3pm, and 3-4pm they are sat down to do homework in the Auxilium. They wash, have some snacks, play a bit, and they go back to study from 5pm to 7pm
How do they study? Do they have desks? No, they study on the floor. They sleep on the same floor as well.
At 7pm they join again for Rosary and they sing, then supper at 7:30pm. Then they have lively recreations, they sing, they dance. At 9pm, they sleep. Where do they sleep? They sleep on the floor with a mat. And they awake again at 5:30am. In the morning, they wash from a cold tap water, although the water is heated in the cold season.
After washing they have their prayer, and they clean their room. And then they join the Sisters in the church for daily mass. The children are all choir members of the daily mass. They do the reading for the mass. Everything is in English. I find this interesting; different from Pallaruthy (the Home of Hope, Kochi) where the language in use is the local language of Malayalam.
What we can do I explained to the Sisters that if we can bring projects to the attention of people, we will be able to attract the interest, and therefore the funding, from generous and concerned individuals in the US. At this point, I showed them what is being done down at the Home of Hope in Kochi. The sisters really enjoyed seeing the "our recent work" leaflet, they all gathered around to see the pictures, including the one of Paul standing up against the cow shed at Hassan. This was the one they found the most interesting!
The School Although there are 8 sisters at the Auxilium Church, I am not sure how many of them are involved in the school, certainly Sister Rani, the Headmistress and Sister Jancy (the deputy head), and 30 lay staff, and 1,200 students. The 6 girls in the orphanage at the Auxilium go to the school (there are also 65 girls at Navajeevana, but I do not believe any of these girls go to this school). The school is English medium. The school is just a few meters away from the Auxilium Church.
There is no assembly room at the school. During the hot months, they cannot have the children out in the direct sun (the sisters, and the Father who came to say mass that day, were regaling stories of how they have to bring children back from unconsciousness when they faint in the sunlight if they try to have assembly outside when it is too hot). A light roof on the top would be useful (NOTE: I am thinking, like they have at the boys orphanage and school in Kochi). They need play things for the children. Slides and climbing frames. There is a little bit of land adjoining the school where play things could go, but there is tension and dispute about what is allowed to be done with it.
Land is very limited, a constant theme of my visit! All the land they have is all they are going to get. As Sister Alice says, "15 years ago it was easy to get land, now it is gold". In this area there is no hope for more land, but both the school and the Auxilium have the foundations to allow for more floors to be added.
The entire school has one T.V. that looks like it is from the 1970s! The Sisters have heard about the LCD projector we got from Bangalore, and I can see in their eyes, they would love to have one here. It is much needed for the school.
The School Library Sister Alice opened the door to the room, and announced, "We are not happy with this library, for example all these cupboards are locked up. The children only get 45 minutes in one period, by the time they open and the children take out, they have little time to actually read". "Why are they locked?", I asked somewhat naively, "Because somebody will take away the books", was Sister Alice's response.
More books for the library, this is Sister Alice's (the superior) dream. She is very passionate about the library. Sister Alice is trying to get a full time member of staff stations in the library so all the cupboards can be left open. But they need money to do this.
They also have just a few tables and no chairs in the library. They need sitting desks and chairs for about 30 or 40 people. The room can definitely take this.
Almost all the books are in English.
The black boards at the school all need to be changed, or at least resurfaced. I asked if they use whiteboards. "No" said Sister Rani, "they are very costly, and the pens are too expensive to buy!".
Disputed Land There is a small piece of land, L in shape which ownership/permissible use is disputed. It hugs the main school play area, and could be used to create a covered area for assembly and play things.
I do not fully understand what the problem is, but the Sisters seem like they would love to do something with this land.
Projects and Ideas from the Sisters
Distant Adoption For about 4,000 to 5,000 rupees a year. A form of scholarship. This allows the sisters to go into the slum (about 1km away) and sponsor girls to join the school. The parents want their children to study, but they have no money. "How many scholarships could you do a year?" I asked. "As many as possible" was the response. They have room for the students.
Training "Will you help for the training of teachers and children", I was asked. The children need leadership training; to go off for 2 or 3 days. They have done things like this before. Take 30 or 50 students to a center, and give them leadership training. For the teachers, they need English training, perhaps for one-week course.
If they had an LCD projector, they could do these training sessions here. This would save money. If they had a projector they could do more here. And of course, they need a hall, if they need more people. (NOTE: I did buy an LCD projector for them the following day).
They also need some teaching aid CDs and DVDs and Science, not stories, but teaching materials.
The Slum (Addagutta) Some of the school children come from the slum. In the school they speak English, but when they go home to the slum they talk Telagu, so they don't get to practice English very much. There is a balancing problem the Sisters have with the slum and the school. The problem they have is the more children they get from the slum, the more they want to speak Telagu in the school with the other children. This is a problem, because there is a tipping point where the language in the playground no longer is English and when this tipping point is reached everyone suffers. I heard the Sisters talk about this struggle and balance many times.
The "slum children" also don't eat very well, they don't get good food, so they are often ill.
I did find it encouraging, that the pupils do all mix in together; it felt like that as I watched them play. i.e. I didn't see the slum children in one area, and the ones from better homes in another.
The school is mainly Hindu, about 90%, the rest are Christian and Muslim.
(NOTE: I have found a little bit of information about this slum, often referred to as the largest in Asia, here http://www.vikasini.org/)
The school computer room
There are about 17 computers... The main server would not turn on, nor would the machine next to it. The power supplies to both the network hubs had blown up, the speakers to the main server used for teaching did not work and was missing a wire. The mouse to 5 of the machines was missing or not functional. 4 of the other machines would not boot up. I went through many of the machines and began fixing them. Problems also with corrupt installations of Windows (all pirated of course). Most of the machines (all but 4) are running Windows 98, a very old operating system. The other 4 are running Windows XP.
The most worrying problems were with the 2 bigger machines, the server and the machine next to it. These machines would just freeze at boot up time and where unresponsive. "I need a screwdriver", I said, and we opened up the main server.
Getting the server working was essential because it is the single point of failure for the whole network (it issues IP addresses to the machines, it also is the only machine with a DVD-ROM player, which I knew I needed so I can install good copies of Windows on all the machines).
Once inside the main machine, I found the DVD-ROM was not even plugged in, no power supply and no cable to the mother board.
Missing memory More worryingly, the main memory chip on the motherboard was in a strange place. There are 4 sockets on the motherboard, and the lone memory chip was in the 2nd socket, with no memory chip in the 1st socket. This was instantly recognizable to me as a strange configuration, and probably something that would prevent a computer from working. So I unseated the memory chip from the 2nd socket, and re-seated it in the 1st socket. We then tried to power the machine up, and halleluiah, the machine started up. I next went to work on the DVD-ROM, adding a power cable to it, and plugging it into the motherboard. Unfortunately this then stopped the computer from starting. So I un-plugged just the cable to the motherboard, and the computer would start-up. So it looked like we might have a faulty cable, these cables are called IDE cables. We went searching through the cupboards, and to our luck we found an IDE cable, the only spare cable of any type. We tried this cable, and success, the machine booted up, started, and the DVD-ROM played.
Now slightly depressingly, the Sisters just a few months ago had the DVD-ROM replaced by a computer repairman. It feels to me that he did not do his job right. The DVD-ROM was not even plugged into the power or the motherboard. And I think a conclusion we could come to is these two machines, which both had only one memory chip, resting in the 2nd socket, have had the memory chip taken from the 1st socket, rendering both non-startable and with half of their memory stolen! The good news is we now have them working again. But this underlines a very common story across the entire province wasting an inordinate amount of time and money for the sisters, and dare I say patience, although they do appear to have been blessed with large amounts of that!
"Most probably, every time we call somebody for repair, it happens" - Sister Rani (Headmistress)
"So what happens, we entrusted the work to them, but the people are not that trustworthy. So they do anything and everything, and we don't know how to cross check. They tell us the rate, and we don't know and we don't know what to believe. Very many times we are cheated" - Sister Rani
Because the computers are so old, all of the CMOS batteries have died, so the computers are unable to remember the time, or date and lose their individual settings. This is an annoyance, and means the teacher has to press F1 to enter setup, F10 to save settings at each boot. Sirisha seemed resigned to this and knew what she is doing. (NOTE: I have bought new CMOS batteries for the machine. They will be fitted by my friend Sanjay who lives in the area and has very kindly offered his time to help the Sisters with getting the remaining problems in this computer lab fixed.).
Blown power supplies By the end of the first day we had got all of the computers working, but due to the blown power supplies for the network hubs, we couldn't upgrade the version of windows on the machines. (NOTE: We bought a new network hub and the old ones have been replaced. Sanjay has also donated Windows XP Licenses for all the computers in the lab, so they can be upgraded and made legal.)
There are also two computers down on the first floor. With the computer in the prayer room, which is tied to a large TV screen, there was a small problem with the monitor, which we fixed. I also looked at the computer in the office of the school. This was a very old Windows 98 machine with an even old dot matrix printer. All of the school correspondence is done using this old printer! (NOTE: We replaced this printer with a new HP LaserJet the next day and upgrade the operating system to Windows XP)
Navajeevana (Home of New Life)
I met Sister Margaret and (Dr) Sister Ancy and Sister Alice (Mother Superior from the Auxilium Church) is accompanying me. The Mother Superior of Navajeevana was away. Navajeevana is about 3kms away from the Auxilium Church and School.
The only place The main impacting theme to Navajeevana is the side effects of a government run project to end child labour which started 3 years ago. The government program is implemented all over the twin cities of Hyderabad and Secunderabad. The government has 3 vehicles driving around the city during school hours. If they see any children, they pick them up: rag pickers, beggars, child labourers. When they see them, girls are brought here, boys go to one of many homes. This is the only place for girls.
When they get here, all their needs are provided, and their parents are counseled as well. They come in here very dirty, so the first thing is giving them a bath. They are often very sick. They are given clean clothes.
Tiny This is the 2nd location they have tried for and it is a match box... just 2 stories, the bottom storey is storage, so they all live on one floor... probably no more than 5 meters wide, maybe 10 meters long and 65 children! They have put a light shelter structure on the roof (donated by a kind soul), which gives them some extra room, but this is not safe for use during the hot summer months because of the extreme heat in this part of the world.
I was taken upstairs to the roof, where the children where all waiting for me, and a rousing chorus of Happy Uncle ensued. I took my place in a row of chairs, seated in the middle, flanked by Sister Margaret and Sister Alice and I was introduced to some of the smaller children who told me their name. Baby Jama, who is front and center in the picture above is a real character, tiny for a 5 year old. I believe her name was given to her by the Sisters because she didn't know her name when she arrived. She arrived with a 'huge pot belly' from malnourishment. The Sisters have done a lot of work to bring her back to health.
Dancing After the welcome, Soni, one of the older children did a solo dance. Soni is seriously good, incredible detail in her movements of authentic Indian dance. I am quite sure she could go on to do this professionally. I hope we can help her do this. Her father has died from AIDs and her mother is in 3rd stage of AIDs and probably won't last much longer. Soni has been instrumental in teaching the other girls dance.
Side note: Also I hear that the girl from the Bangalore Navajeevana that is clearly very talented at dance has been to Delhi/Bombay for a competition.
We had a show for about 30 minutes of much dance and local custom, some solo dance, some small groups and at the end a song about how they should be and behave. They seemed to know this one the best and sang it with pride. I then gave each of the children a wrapped sweet, as a reward for their show and gave them a little pep talk to let them know that many people care for them in America. A big shout of "THANK YOU UNCLE" came back in response. "Keep working hard" I shouted back!
The Sisters showed me all their clothes, their school bags and little container for their lunch which they have at school each day.
The Sisters gave me a tour of the rest of the building... they have 3 taps, cold water only of course and 4 toilets... they have to get all 65 children through this in the morning!! The smallest children are made to have a bath outside.
They have this tiny room, maybe 12 foot square... they get all 65 children to sit down in here and eat! They also have a small chapel, maybe 8 foot square. They get all the children in this room in the morning.... I cannot believe it! Apparently they have them hanging in through the windows and the door way.
The girls have written prayers to Joseph to pray for a bigger house (see picture). They are really out of room here. This is their biggest problem.
They have 65 children and they are completely out of room!
The government just started giving them kids... 700 people in the last year, and they are now up to 105 a month. The sister showed me the month-to-month enrollment book. 84, 87, 104, 110 was the last 4 months. 60 of the children are now permanent, their parents are not around any more to come and get them. Those who have parents, the parents take them away.
I sat down for tea and ice cream with the sisters. The government gives them 330 rupees a month for each child.... 10 rupees a day! And that is not permanent. It is probably going to go away. It is not even enough for pay for breakfast. The government is going to stop in March, although the sisters are working on changing this.
Soni has been here for 2 years. She has no parents. She has a sister, 14 or 15 and a younger brother.
She does not want to go home. She is very grateful. She is in 5th class. She is 11. She will go to junior college. She will be with the sisters until she gets married. This will be her motherhouse for the rest of her life.
There are a number of good colleges close by. A school close by, is sponsoring a class called 'future kids'. They are trying to get a teacher to teach dance. They are looking at doing a TV program around this.
"Do you like publicity?" I asked, to which I heard laughs all around... they want to silently do their work, but they have a problem, Sister Alice said. "We must make noise, and tell people what we are doing. "
This place is run through a network of friends and it has been here since December 2005.
Longer term their goal is to have this house as the drop off house. And then to buy some more land, to be the middle place, and the Auxilium to be the end stage. It is good to separate the small, middle and big children from each other.
The building is made of lime, no bricks, so it crumbles! They have to patch it up every year.
They cook all the food in the kitchen. They seem to get a good diet. They get chicken and egg and vegetables. They also get a 7-grain powder substance from the government. I tasted it, it is a sweet flour tasting thing. I didn't like it that much, but apparently the girls like it.
During the holidays, they are in the house all day, and in the hot months, they can't even use the top floor. So all 65 children are in the house. This is also the time for chickenpox and measles, which means they have to quarantine some of the children, which makes it even more cramped.
Only in the last year have they had a water supply, a person donated the money for a bore whole. Before then they would have to go to house to house and ask for water.
This is the only transit home for girls, there are many of them for boys. I asked "Do you ever get full, or do you keep taking the children in?"
The government wants them to have 200 children in the current building, to which Sister Alice exclaimed: "The children are not animals". The Sisters have begun to move some of the girls who have been in the street home the longest (and whose parents are never going to be coming to pick them up) on to the Auxilium church about 3kms away to free up some room in the street home.
As the Sisters have noticed, if you cram too many kids in a small space, every now and then a girl will run away, so they have built the walls higher. They took me outside to see the wall where the girls had jumped over. But the sisters ran after them and brought them back. When the girls run away the Sisters have to fill out an FIR, a First Information Report with the police. Sister Margaret was regaling stories of the girls escaping, only to be found rag picking a few hours later. And another girl, who ran away, and was getting ready to marry one boy 2 days later. This girl also took 2 young girls with her when she ran away.
Sister Ancy has a PH.D in child abuse. She bought me her PH.D thesis. All 270 pages of it, officially bound in leather in dark red cover with gold lettering. Sister Ancy is the first person to study the street children to this level in Bangalore. Sister Ancy started the Street children work in Bangalore. Sister Ancy does most of the counseling.
Sister Ancy is the quiet kind, sitting there listening, but you just know there is something going on behind those eyes. It was once we started talking about the stories of the individual girls, that you see the light go on, you can tell this is her life work, here in these Street Children homes. Page 267 of her thesis is titled 'Major Findings'. I did not get time to read through it all, so Sister Ancy kindly provided me a copy of the book on CD.
No photos Sister Margaret talked more about why they have the "no photo, no film" sign. They keep on getting officials over here, who come over and take many photos of the children and then re-post them telling that it is all their own work. They even had people say, "move, move" to Sisters so that they get out of the picture the camera is taking.
The no photos allowed picture is because of Satayam. They took so many photos, "taking and taking", "they were asking the children their stories and this makes the children feel terribly".
I was asked to write in the visitors' book. Which I did, but I got confused because the date on the line above was 08.02, I always get confused with dates, I knew it was only 02.05 in American date form. So 08.02 was 3 days in the future or 6 months ago in American date for... but when I asked to clear up my confusion, it was actually 8th Feb 2008. 362 days ago was their last visitor to sign this book, but this does explain why the children are just so excited to see you, and why they dance so passionately when they perform.
One lady paid the money for all of the girls to have the full medical tests, so they could be tested for STDs etc. Very fortunately, all of the girls are clear, which is amazing considering so many of their parents have died from AIDs.
It is strange to see the names of the children on the official medical forms, i.e. just "Baby Jama" etc. Most of the children do not know their last name, and most do not know their birthday. So their birthday becomes the month of the year they arrive, and the day of the month is always the Virgin Mary's birthday, the 15th.
The police pick up the children off the street during the day and drop the girls off to this home (there are several homes for boys), however an interesting problem occurs. Because girls make better beggars, boys are often mistakenly brought to the home dressed up as girls. This has happened 3 or 4 times and it has taken a few days for things to be worked out! So, now to avoid complications, they make all the girls have a bath before they are allowed to mix with the others.
Once the police got it wrong in the other direction, and they dropped off a girl at a boys' home, for one week she was in the boys home before anyone noticed.
Dreams of land As Sister Margaret walked us to an auto, she showed us the building next door that they would love to buy, so they can have some more room... they are praying... together they could join the 2 houses together (the current building is the building in the background, the building they dream about is the one in the foreground). Sister Margaret also showed me the school just a block down the road where many of the girls go. There is no playground at this school either.
A phone call We were dropped back at the Auxilium Church by the auto and with good timing ‘Paul Uncle' was on the phone from North Carolina. One of the sisters showed me to the telephone booth and I shared the events I have just shared with you. I put the phone down and I sat down with the sisters for dinner. Not ten minutes later, the phone went again, "Paul Uncle for you" I heard one of the sisters shout. "Ah, he must have had another one of his ideas", I said! I returned back to the telephone booth where Paul told me he had just got off the phone with Sister Rosy, the Mother Provincial in Bangalore, and they had agreed that we should continue on from our work in Kochi and aim to build another Home of Hope here, a Home of Hope II, so these girls too can have a home where they have room to learn and play. I returned back to the dinner table and said to the sisters "we will build your children a home". A tear ran down the face of Sister Alice.
Stuart Padley, March 8, 2009
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Report from 2007 Trip
During Paul Wilkes's October visit, many exciting projects were underway. A new solar-powered water purification system provides clean drinking water for the orphan girls and the 500 students in the Auxilium School in which the orphanage is housed. A new shed is being built on the roof so that even during the long monsoon season, the girls will have fresh, dry clothes to wear. The Home of Hope All Girls marching band is now a reality - horns and drums and marching feet are heard on the grounds...and the girls have a new sense of pride in their new band. Here's a full report on that trip:
Dear Friends of Home of Hope:
I wish all of you could have been with me at Home of Hope on that one Saturday, October 13, 2007.
- On the roof, near the huge water tank, local workmen peered into four huge boxes and began a project unlike any they had ever attempted before.
- Nearby, the blistering heat of a welders torch attached pieces of steel to frame the new shed on the roof.
- In the assembly area of the school, which is still the sleeping area for the girls, where was the rustle of newspapers as they excitedly unwrapped trumpets and bugles and drums. Soon, there was a joyful bellowing and drumbeats --yet unpracticed but thoroughly enthusiastic.
- At the back of the property, a freshly dug hole held a stone, a cross upon it.
It was such a wonderful day, with so much activity, so many good things happening for the girls. I
had arrived a few days before for an extended stay, to implement what your generosity has provided. But it was this particular Saturday that crystallized what our work together is doing to transform the lives of the 70 adorable, bright-eyed girls who live at Home of Hope. First off, plumbers on the roof? Many wearing the native dhoti, their lean bodies belying the strength of these good men, the team from Mr. P. Ramachandran sGR Tech Services engineering and construction company began installing a HomeSpring water purifier and the solar unit that will power it. Everyone in Kochi either boils or treats the water as sewage and rain runoff contaminate the supply. We searched to find a way to
make that water drinkable, not only for the girls and their kitchen, but for the Auxilium school of 515
students in which the orphanage is housed.

Raising their glasses of clean drinking water! to the new
solar-powered water purifier.
We found GE s HomeSpring unit, then Jack and Carmen Barker of Innovative Technologies in Colorado devised a way to power it with two solar panels. Steve
and Tracy Tomkovicz, of Christ the King Parish in Pleasant Hill, California, where my Tracy and I had spoken, stepped in and provided the funding through their annual Wine to Water golf tournament and auction that helps underwrite Third World water projects.
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This is an innovative system, with little maintenance or additional cost. If you are as fascinated as I became, find out more at http://www.homeofhopeindia.org/www.homespring.com
As you can see, the girls are toasting a new era: one of good, pure, disease-free drinking water.
The shed is a gift of Bob and Aimee Davis and their three children. They are from Shrewsbury, Massachusetts St. Mary parish, where I spoke, telling the parishioners about damp clothes that never dry during monsoon season. The shed provides roof protection and air-drying for the girl s clothing, which they hand wash, as well as for various household items.

Under construction: the rooftop drying shed.
The Home of Hope All Girls Marching Band came into being because Hollee Mateo, a teacher at
Christ the King School in Pleasant Hill, heard our talk and wanted her school children to do something special for the girls. I asked Sr. Anna, the superior of the nine Salesian Sisters of Don Bosco who live at Home of Hope, and Sr. Sophy, the school principal, what people could do to put some fun into the daily lives of the orphan girls, to feed their spirit as well as care for their minds and bodies. A band; why not a band? was the idea that came back. So, we purchased 20 instruments and material for uniforms (which will soon be stitched by the very competent sewing class). The student council at Christ the King had held a car wash to raise money and then simply dipped into their treasury to
provide the rest. The school s name is now proudly displayed on the euphonium (a sort of small tuba)
carried in the first row of the band.
You should have seen and heard the girls, honking away, beating on drums, practicing their quite
pukka marching routines. Bandmaster Johnny, himself a product of the Salesian priests boys orphanage nearby, has already given them lessons and The Home of Hope All Girls Marching Band is well on its way.
A few days before this exciting and busy Saturday, I was honored to slather mortar onto two large
blocks and lay the cornerstone (with etched cross) of the new building we all have been working so hard to make a reality. I was able to bring over some $60,000 so that construction might begin, under the supervision of an excellent construction manager, Paul Raj, whose heart is with the Home of Hope girls. He will build well, and as quickly as possible. I am sure we can raise the final
$40,000 so that the girls can sleep in a comfortable dormitory, have showers, a sick room, computer lab and learning center and generally, a real home. In a year's time, they will no longer have to sleep on concrete, on thin straw mats. The laying of the cornerstone was a very proper ceremony, with a blessing and proclamation ( In the year of our Lord two thousand and seven )The Salesian provincial, Sister Rosy Malayatty, was there for the occasion.

A joyful noise: Home of Hope All Girls Marching Band.
I sat with the sisters and Sister Rosy to draw up a list of needs for 2008. (I m including the list; you can choose how your donation is used.) Looking back on past needs we ve taken on, most are accomplished --junior college scholarships, water system, vehicle, computers, and a new building on its way to full funding. That s the excitement and dynamism of Home of Hope. By concentrating on one place, we are making a profound difference in the lives of these girls.
Beyond anything we do, it is the relationship with the Home of Hope girls and the sisters that really matters. It fills our own hearts and encourages us to do still more. That is why people like you are visiting Home of Hope, so that you can experience this magical place. That is why the Davis family is planning on regular visits, so that their children might be aware of what can be done to stand with and support those who need our helping hand.
The 70 girls at Home of Hope continue to thrive and it is so heartening to see them grow, not only
physically, but into more self-confident beings. We must always remember, looking at these smiling faces, that they all have lived lives of horrible degradation, neglect, of mental, spiritual, physical and often sexual abuse. That takes a great toll on a young girl. But under the care of the sisters, and bolstered by your help, the girls know that they matter and that they are loved; so many people around the world are with them.

Sister Rita helping Chithra learn to read.
I saw this increase in self-awareness and confidence demonstrated dramatically in so many of the
girls. Chinchu, a native girl, who lived in the jungle in a thatched hut, is now in school, and a vital member of the community. Last year, I saw Sister Annie place her hand over Chithra s to trace the first letter of the alphabet the girl had ever written. She was ten years old and had never been to school. Chithra is now in the second grade and will soon be advanced to the fourth. She will be up to her grade level soon; she is a smart girl and catches on quickly.
Little Reena, the six-year old who captured our hearts and yours, is blossoming. As you might
remember, Reena s mother is mentally ill and they were begging one day when Reena got separated from her mother and was kidnapped by the beggar mafia. To make her a better beggar they held her down and brutally plunged a darning needle into her left eye, blinding her in that eye. I can testify to the change in Reena from the first time Tracy and I met her in early 2006. She is now eight and gradually coming out of her shell, always ready with that smile that both broke and captured our hearts, and doing well in school. It is her dream to someday come to America.
I want to encourage you to visit and stay at Home of Hope, and to work with the girls. One of the
greatest needs is to teach spoken English. Although a good number of the girls are in the English medium school, spoken English is an entirely separate issue. English that they can use in everyday conversation, in a future job, is the key to their future. You can be a part of that training during your visit.

Vidhya, Saritha and Reena on cleaning day.
If you want a larger project, a mission trip for a half dozen people or so, we can organize a work project or an intensive English workshop, where all the girls can learn, at their appropriate level. Possibilities are unlimited: a yoga group is planning a yoga retreat.
As I looked out over the girls on my last night there, when they presented a program with elegant
costumes and dancing, I was simply overwhelmed, filled with such happiness. I could hardly thank them I was so teary, because they are giving each of us far more than we are giving them. We are in their prayers each day. And does God not hear the prayer of these girls, who have seen so much adversity in their lives? None of us knows exactly how the power of prayer works, but something is happening both there at Home of Hope and in our own lives that is beyond understanding. Until we talk or meet next time, thank you.
Paul Wilkes - US Coordinator - Home of Hope
1413 Hawthorne Road - Wilmington NC 28403
910-815-0694 - 910-538-4544 (cell)
www.homeofhopeindia.org
p.s. During my visit, four Home of Hope girls were trained to run our Used Books, New Lives program. You may recall, Used Books, New Lives asks people to donate books online that the girls then list on Amazon.com. When a book sells, the donor receives a shipping label and tax deduction. A virtual bookstore. Please list your books and DVDs HERE
It s fun and helps the girls help themselves. We have already made several hundred dollars. Invite your church, civic group, or club to join in.
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Home of Hope (Prathyasha Bhavan) is an Indian orphanage that provides a loving, safe, stable home to abandoned, homeless, abused, and neglected girls, from age 5 to 23. It is located in the south of India, in the city of Kochi (Cochin), state of Kerala. There are currently some 70 girls in residence, and no girl in need or crisis is ever turned away.
For further information:
Paul Wilkes - U.S. Coordinator - Home of Hope
1413 Hawthorne Road - Wilmington NC 28403
910-815-0694 (office) 910-538-4544 (cell)
Make checks payable to: Home of Hope
All donations are fully tax deductible.
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Building Fund Grows -- It is hard to believe but our Home of Hope girls must sleep in these crowded conditions, on the concrete floor, in the assembly area of the Auxilium School, simply because there is no other place for their ever-growing number. No girl in need is ever turned away.
But, with your generosity and that of churches in Aurora and Indianapolis, Indiana, Worcester and Shrewsbury, Massachusetts, and in Pleasant Hill, California, the fund for a new building is now at $60,000 of the $100,000 construction cost. With faith in God -- and you -- Home of Hope will break ground this fall, as soon as the monsoon rains are past. "Off the floor and onto the ladder of life" is our wish and dream for the Home of Hope girls.

Van -- when girls were sick or other transportation was needed, the Sisters would have to go out into the street and flag down a motorized rickshaw. An anonymous donor early this fall bought them a good, used van.

Computers -- Computer literacy is absolutely crucial to future employment. Home of Hope donors have purchased eight computers and an LCD projector for training purposes.
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A few of our supporters:

These gradeschoolers at Queen of Heaven parish in Cherry Hill, New Jersey wave Hello to the girls at Home of Hope. They raised $2,000, enough for two bricks in the "Wall of Fame." How about your school?
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Scholarship Help
Cost: $1,200 per year/$100 per month

Education is the key for a good future in the New India. Our older girls like Pinky (left) are motivated, disciplined and eager to learn. But funds are needed for their further education. The girls go to Junior College or advanced computer and secretarial school . Each scholarship will be conferred directly in your name and you will be able to communicate with the student and track progress.
How to Help: Sponsor a girl at $1,200 per year, $100 per month.
Pinky Nurani (above) is completing her first year of junior college , sponsored by one of our generous friends in New Jersey.
She writes:
I am trying my level best to study. I also have very good friends here at junior college; they help me in many ways. Last week I attended a Youth Leadership seminar in Ernakulam. The seminar was very good. I have been chosen as President of Youth in our school. All these will help me grow in a better way. The sisters offered me all opportunities at Home of Hope. I am very grateful to them. I want to study and grow and I dream to have a normal life that of others.I sincerely thank you for coming to my life.
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Special(ized) Visitors
If you teach any grade or high school subject, especially English, Computer, or Business Practice, or have done any basic literary work, or if you are generally willing to work with our girls to improve their spoken and written English, you can be of valuable help. Persons specializing in Social work, Child Development, Child Psychology, Teacher Education and School Administration are also needed. These are only suggestions. Inquires about your field of specialization or intrest are welcomed. Special(ized) Visitors can be in residence at Home of Hope for 1-3 weeks. when you fly, at your expense, to Kochi you will be met at the airport and from then on you will have no expenses. You will sleep at the orphanage, eat with the staff, and engage in meaningful work.
Interested?: Contact Paul Wilkes, Home of Hope U.S. Coordinator, or find out more at www.homeofhopeindia.org________________________________________________________________________________________________
Testimonials
Reflections of Home of Hope visitor Jeanne Phaneuf and Alex, her ten year old son, from Vancouver, British Columbia, Canada - May 18, 2007
Where do I begin? Home of Hope is a place that enfolds everyone! Whether you're a young girl needing a place to call home or a volunteer from abroad, the Salesian sisters will welcome you in and take exceptional care of you. My ten-year son and I were treated so well by everyone; we felt like family. The girls blessed us with song upon our arrival and embraced us with love in the days that followed.
As a visitor to Home of Hope I was there to teach self-confidence, goal setting, and self-esteem, commonly known as life skills. Well, in one short week I learned more about life than I ever could have imagined. The harsh realities that these girls have had to face are heart-breaking. Everyone has a story. I am amazed at their ability to live in the moment and smile at the blessings of the day. Each one expresses so much joy it boggles my mind. Singing the hit songs of recent films, the girls' voices radiated the sound of spirit. Bhanu, Asha, and Bindu could be the next Idol.
As the kids were on their summer break, I joined their yoga class and although I did well I was rather amusing because I had no idea what the instructor was saying so I had to watch closely. I am glad I have done yoga before. I did get singled out on the panting dog which brought on rolling laughter with myself and the rest of the group.
A special time during our visit were the days leading up to the picnic at seaside in Kollam. The air vibrated with excitement and anticipation. Some girls had taken this trip many times, but only because they had been at the orphanage since they were very young. No complaints; they were happy to join in on this joyous day.
The bus pulled out at 5:15 a.m, and there was not a tired look on the bus other than maybe mine, which passed quickly. The sisters embraced the younger girls and cradled them for a few more hours rest. My lap did not remain empty for longer either. Little Aishwariya climbed up, snuggled in, put her head on my chest and slept till our arrival. It was in that moment I knew it was going to be really hard to leave. Tears welled in my eyes, knowing I had only three days left. I turned my face to the window letting the breeze dry my tears, pushing those thoughts to the back of my mind. Denial at its best.
What I gave felt like nothing and really it is simple what these girls need: they want and crave love. The sisters are tremendous with them - don't get me wrong - but you do the math: nine sisters and up to seventy-five girls. Not a lot of cuddle time. The girls are all responsible for their own hygiene and laundry and not once did I hear the complaint, "I don't have anything clean to wear." They were on top of it.
Alex, my ten year old son played till he was exhausted then rested and played some more. Speaking English to the girls, teaching them new words and learning Malayalam at the same time. One of my favorite moments is watching them play together, the only barrier was not enough hours in a day for kids who seem to have a universal language that bridges all gaps. Home of Hope was a highlight for both of us during our trip to India.
I took over the book The Seven Habits of Highly Successful Teenagers and used it as a tool to help the girls see how these traits can help them form a healthy personality. I found I had to speak slowly as some of the girls might be able to write English, but they do have difficulty speaking and comprehending. It was a small barrier that we overcame quickly. For future visitors, I would say that you don't need to worry about personal needs as you can buy pretty much anything you need in Kochi. What you can take along for the girls are any "girly" things, plus good picture books and story books in English, at all levels.

Saying good-bye was tough as saying goodbye to family is especially difficult when you don't know when you will see them next. God bless each one of them, as they are in my thoughts and prayers everyday. As I adjust back to my life in Canada, I have had to fight the urge to hop on the next plane and go back. Mother India embraces those who walk in love and help others and we were blessed to be apart of that embrace. May you follow your heart to Binny Road and tell them I say "Hi!"
Warm Blessings,
Jeannie
Here is my blog site during the rest of my travels.http://www.travelblog.org/Bloggers/Jeannie--s-piece-of-mind
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The davis family in Shrewsbury, Massachusetts is building a big, covere d badly-needed shed at Home of Hope. The shed will shelter the girls during the monsoon, and allow them to dry their clothes -- they were going around "damp" for half the year. Here's Bob, Lillian,7; Martin,8; Aimee, and Natalie,5.
Check out these snazzy band uniforms!...well, the students at christ the king school in Pleasant Hill, california, are raising mon ey to buy uniforms, bugles, drums, and all sorts of instruments for the home of hope all-girls marching band! they've already raised $700 with a car wash and are determined to reach the $2,100 needed. Go for it, Christ the King!
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Here Is the latest news, and the latest messages from India: September 6, September 3, July 5, June 17th and June 19th, 2007.
Dear Sayip Uncle and Friends of Home of Hope, (September 6, 2007)
Thanks for finding a person to do the shed. I think we can explain about this to you when you come over here. Home of Hope is finding a home in many American hearts ! God has a plan for every one and everything. It is the wish/will of God that you and your friends should become partners in the works of God specially with regard to Home of Hope(Prathyasha Bhavan).
All of us are praying for all our helpers. Today our superiors from Bangalore came here to see and fix the correct place for our building. There are little changes in the plan for better construction and utilization of the land and building. According to them the present plan is better arranged and it will remain as dormitories, study, refectory, toilets, small kitchen etc. for our children. Thus we will have the new building for children of the orphanage. Mr. Paul Raj our consultant too was present. They measured the land and positioned what should be, where and how etc. They have done a good job. Now we can proceed with our preliminary works getting the necessary permissions from the authorities. So when you come we hope to have everything ready to begin with. Waiting for your arrival. With lots of love and affection.
--Sr. Anna Thayil
Dear Sayip Uncle and Friends of Home of Hope, (September 3, 2007)
So this time when you come to Home of Hope in October, uncle, you will have a few more new faces. I thought the government was sending two children, but when they came here they were four in all. Susy, 16 years; Shenzy, 7 years; Suchitra 12, years; Surya, 8 years. We shall embrace them all in our growing family.
Banu Priya (on left, for whom a scholarship fund has been started by three women in California) is studying well and she is in the Xth class. (In India, high school stops at 10th grade.) She is working very hard and wants to come out in flying colours ! She will then go on to higher studies.

"Thank you so much for the full scholarships for Rajeswari (see picture below) and Preethi Babu (on right) (two couples in California stepped forword to pay for a full year's scholarship for each girl). You cannot imagine how much this means in their lives. Their future is so much brighter now."
Our Sajini (a scholarship has been started for her by another California woman) is now studying in Vijayawada. When I called Sajini to tell her of the scholarship, she was very "boosted up."
Sajini's life has been difficult; her mother has mental problems and is in a corporation settlement. She does not recognize her child. Sajini feels a lot for it. Her mother was a beggar when Sajini was a baby. Police caught and brought her to the settlement, no sign of having a child in hand. The authorities asked her to throw away all the rags. She threw the bundle of rags aside.
After sometime they saw a movement in the bundle of old clothes, when looked a baby girl was found. This child was given to us 15 years back. Now we have a beautiful young lady of 16 years. Sajini, very sensitive and wants to study, wants to look after the mother. Mother is locked in the rooms as she is violent sometimes. They would put her out, but does not speak as she has forgotten to speak. Now and then we go to see her in the Relief Settlement. We can help Sajini. I will send her photo soon.
Uncle Joseph Rooney (a New Jersey man who is providing a scholarship) has sent the photos of his daughters and grand children. I shall forward this to Pinky (his scholarship student, now in junior college). She is doing well. She has taken the Science Group. Though it is a little tough, she is doing her best to study. The sister in charge and her friends help her, make her understand the lessons taught. She is very happy there. She is now with normal family children and that is good. So let her grow with new experience of having a beautiful life over there.
Thanks a lot for your efforts and above all your love towards these children. With lots of love to all from all of us Sr. Anna Thayil, sisters and Children
Dear Friends: Loving greetings to you from Home of Hope, India. Today we got the result of community college exams, such as Nursery Teachers Training and Secretarial Practice. There were 34 girls from our orphanages who sat for the exam and all of them passed. They worked so hard and studied diligently. Thank you very much for the prayers. Most of the girls are already employed. They will be coming back on 15th August for the Past Pupils' meeting.
In Secretarial Practice course our girl, Nisha, received the highest mark.
We are really proud of her.
Thinking of you and praying for you,
With love and prayers
Sr.Thresia A
Dear Sayip Uncle and friends of Home of Hope,
Thanks a lot for all that you are to us. We have received the cheque for Pinky Nurani. Pinky is going to Kattappana and Preethi Babu and Rajeswari (below) are going to Kunnamangalam for the Junior College.

At the beginning this is a great help for Pinky specially. Bhavani is going to join a regular college in Edakochi. Classes will begin for Asha (Airhostess) on 25th June. Anjali will be going for her Nursing Course in Bangalore. Laura and Nissy P.K. completed their course (Secretarial Practice) in Bangalore and started working. They are very very happy, that they could earn little money of their own.
A few more have joined our band here. One Archana - a run away - due to the ill treatment of her parents are landed in Prathyasha Bhavan. She is said to be in the Xth class. Now must find out her roots and story. Others who came are Nisha - mother passed away and father left the children to the mercy of some relatives -, Maneesha and Majisha in the VII th and Vth class respectively.
These children need a lot of love treatment. Kindly have them in your prayers too, so that our presence for them should be appealing and pleasant, efficacious and effective.
I have heard about your coming over here. Also some of your friends. Most welcome to all to Home of Hope. Hope the water project will come in near future. Pinky is sitting near me and telling thank God we have so many friends in America!
with lots of love,
Sr. Anna Thayil, Sisters and children
Today (june 19) when I opened the website, there was something surprising. The last letter which I sent. I was very happy to see Rajeswari standing all smiling in the site. Sending her beautician course for nearly two months did a lot of good to this child. She gained self confidence. She is completely a different person now. So much of an attachment and belongingness to us. Ready for any kind of work in the Annex. She is a very loving person. Educating her she will have a bright future.
Thanks and God bless you.
Regards,
Sr. Anna Thayil, Sisters and Children.
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